produced, engineered, and mixed by matt ingram at urchin studios from 2017-2024. additional engineering by john mark painter at the international house of fleming in nashville, tn in 2022-2024. mastered by edsel holden at redact studios in nashville, tn. art direction and album design by beth mathews. photography by iris ray. © & ℗ sight manner music llc. except for “Ceremony,” © & ℗ universal music. vinyl under exclusive license to esperanza recordings, memphis, tn.

this album is dedicated to my children: teddy, lu & annie.

thank you to all the people who cared for my children so i could make this. and to my husband will, who continues to make space for whoever i become.


Me Before the You

Written by Alva Leigh peden levanway, Mary Erskine

Vocals by Alva Leigh

drums, synths, programming, and guitar by matt ingram

horns by john mark painter

After the last of the lasts

Before the first of the firsts

I hang like a melody

Waiting for its words

I've gathered in one hand

All I say I know

Loosely in the other

All I'm ready to let go

How to hold onto the me before the you

Inside a sun as it sets

Watching the paint as it dries

How long can I stay here

Between two blinks of an eye

I've gathered in one hand

All I say I know

Loosely in the other

All I'm ready to let go

I will celebrate the mountains I've made

The versions I've been in this skin

Everything will change

You don't take that away

The versions I've been a new one begins

Late Bloomer

Written by Alva Leigh peden levanway

Keys and Vocals by Alva Leigh

drums, synths, programming, and guitar by matt ingram

French Horn, acoustic guitar by John Mark Painter

Send me a postcard of the burning bush

I don't need a mountaintop to know what's good

But some days I miss the climb

Did the bush know it was gonna burn when it became a vine?

I guess I'll be a late bloomer

Cause I don't wanna disappear

I spend my days as a soft place to land

Did you know a dying star explodes in the end?

So I slowly walk the line of burning out and catching fire

I guess I'll be a late bloomer

Cause I don't wanna disappear

Some will say that I dug my grave 

So why don't I sit down and die in it? 

I'm not gonna die in it

Find You In Other Places

Written by Alva Leigh peden levanway

Vocals by Alva Leigh

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

Guitar by John Mark Painter

Dappled light by your side at the window

We left you there but I don’t know if I can let go

They say it will get easier but how do I believe them?

I’ve got to find you in other places

Like the butterfly in the wind

And the red bird on the fence

I’ve got to find you in other places

In this dark I cannot find a hidden trap door

And through the fire the only grace is sorrow

I promise I will carry you as far as I can take you

Then I will find you in other places

Like the butterfly in the wind

And the red bird on the fence

I’ve got to find you in other places

I’ve got to find you, find you

So I don’t lose you, lose you

In the morning sky, in the butterfly

that catches your sister’s eye, it won’t pass me by

I’ve got to find you

Like the butterfly in the wind

And the red bird on the fence

I’ve got to find you in other places

Builder of the Bones

Written by Alva Leigh Peden LEvanway, Mary Erskine

Vocals, keys by Alva Leigh

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

Horns, Acoustic Guitar by John mark Painter

A glimmer in the dark

the pieces of the frame

I'll never see the sum

I'm just marking out the empty, empty, empty space 

To the architects in Spain who pictured the people praying

But they never heard the words in the cathedrals that they made

It's like I'm out here sanding stones laying bricks out here alone

Is the satisfaction lost to be the builder of the bones,

the builder of the bones

Hammering the bells

building out the pews 

I'll never hear the songs

the songs I wrote for you

To the architects in Spain who pictured the people praying

But they never heard the words in the cathedrals that they made

It's like I'm out here sanding stones laying bricks out here alone

Is the satisfaction lost to be the builder of the bones, the builder of the bones

It's a monumental mission to let go of your ambition and make space

Birthday Girl

Written by Alva Leigh peden levanway and Mary Erskine

Vocals, synth, additional programming by Alva Leigh

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

Scene shot in slow motion 

A circle of eyes

The weight of attention 

when the ribbons are tied

Peel back the paper 

we're trapped in their moment 

Anticipating the 

Birthday girl, birthday girl, birthday girl

Birthday - we light the candle to watch it go out

Where does the magic go? 

A glow on the surface, 

What's growing inside

The attraction of newness, 

The promise of life

Take what you're given forget what you wanted

Holding the mirror to all of their choices

Birthday girl, birthday girl, birthday girl

Birthday - we light the candle to watch it go out

Where does the magic go? 

After the party they all go home

Your back to the door feel the silence grow

Nobody tells you how you will cope

After the magic goes, where did the magic go

For the birthday girl

For the birthday girl

For the birthday girl

We light the candle

Pearl

written by alva leigh peden levanway

vocals, piano by alva leigh

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

tenor saxophone by john mark painter

Halloween autumn leaves on the backseat of your SUV

A cold iced tea between your knees as you drove around southeastern streets

You were raising the future reliving the past

The hours are long but the days go fast

When did it feel like drowning 

How did you know it was time to swim

What started out as a grain of sand

Became a pearl in the end

38 you had me late you wore a shell we watched it break

In a driveway in '98 2 days before my 10th birthday

You were raising the future reliving the past

The hours are long but the days go fast

When did it feel like drowning 

How did you know it was time to swim

What started out as a grain of sand

Became a pearl in the end

Pearl, pearl pearl

What started out as sand

Became a pearl in the end

Ceremony

song by joy division + new order

vocals by alva leigh

bass, acoustic guitar, autoharp, melodica, and synth by john mark painter

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

This is why events unnerve me

They find it all a different story

Notice whom for wheels are turning

Turn again and turn towards this time


All she asks the strength to hold me

But then again the same old story

Word will travel, oh-so quickly

Travel first and lean towards this time


Oh, I'll break them all, no mercy shown

Heaven knows, it's got to be this time

Watching her, the things she said

The times she cried, too frail to wake this time


Oh, I'll break them down, no mercy shown

Heaven knows, it's got to be this time

Avenues all lined with trees

Picture me and then you start watching

Watching forever

Forever, watching love grow

Forever, letting me know

She Flew

written by alva leigh peden levanway

vocals by alva leigh

Harmonium, Bass clarinet, French horn, drum, Flugal horn, Lap dulcimer by john mark painter

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

Lilac in the morning

Lavender in the sun

Fireflies in the evening

A jar of chrysanthemums

She flew into blue, into you

She flew, she flew

Daisy chains on our foreheads

Streamers around the room

Watching the shadows of sunset

Missing what’s gone so soon

She flew into blue, into you

She flew, she flew

And I just want look away

but I’ve gotta know how it ends

All the magic and the pain

Oh I gotta know all of the times

You flew into blue, into you

She flew

Wilderness

written by alva leigh peden levanway

vocals and keys by alva leigh

drums, synths, programming by matt ingram

For all of the years that I’ve inside this house

The curtains, the halls, the pictures on walls

No more surprises now

Memories and dreams I’ve gathered are sittin’ on a shelf

Then I found a room that I didn’t know about


You opened the door and you pulled me in

If I am a garden, then loving you is a wilderness


I can’t sleep sometimes wondering how you’ll turn out

Mistakes I will make, plans I will break, my fear of falling down

If time is medicine then baby you’re forever and you’re now

You’re like a room that I didn’t know about


You opened the door and you pulled me in

If I am a garden, then loving you is a wilderness


A wilder, wilder, wilderness 

When I thought there was nothing left


You opened the door and you pulled me in

If I am a garden, then loving you is a wilderness

Something from nothing, magic within

If I am a garden, then loving you is a wilderness

Home Again feat. Call Me Spisnter

written by alva leigh peden levanway

vocals and keys by alva leigh

additional vocals by amelia graber jacobs, rachel graber fortin, rosie graber

drums, synths and programming by matt ingram

Xylophone, Stylophone, Bass, Glockenspiel, Flugal horn, French horn by john mark painter

Here’s to all the places that never loved me back, loved me back

I’m sick and tired of wasting the daydreams in my lap


Why don’t we go home, home again?


It’s not like I’m erasing all the times we had, times we had

Everything is changing and I don’t wanna be sad


Why don’t we go home, home again?


Together holding plans, we hold them loosely in our hands 

As long we’re together, As long we’re together


Why don’t we go home, home again?

Cos I think I’m getting over, finally getting over you